Choice remains yours
A yes is specific and changeable. You may ask questions, adapt your participation, pause, decline or stop.
The principles behind the practice
Work involving sexuality, intimacy and altered states needs more than good intentions. It needs clear roles, informed choice, responsible practice and boundaries people can trust, especially when an experience becomes powerful.
These commitments guide Andrew’s retreats, events, consultations, mentoring and practitioner education. They explain what you can expect, where the work’s scope ends and how to ask a question or raise a concern.
A visible foundation
Ethics should be felt in the way intimate work is offered, not simply written around it. They protect your choices, make responsibilities clear and ensure there is somewhere to turn when a question or concern arises.
These standards show how participation is approached, where professional limits sit and how questions, difficult moments or concerns will be taken seriously and addressed.
A yes is specific and changeable. You may ask questions, adapt your participation, pause, decline or stop.
The facilitator’s responsibility is to guide the process, maintain boundaries and never seek personal gratification through it.
The purpose, possibilities and limits of an offering are made clear, including when different or specialist support is needed.
Questions and concerns can be raised, and an independent route remains available when the matter should sit outside Andrew’s team.
Ethics in practice
Open any principle for a clear explanation of what it looks like in practice. The full published documents are available below whenever you want the detailed wording and procedures.
Before participation, people need enough balanced information to decide freely. During an experience, their authority over their own involvement remains intact.
The facilitator is responsible for holding the structure of the work, attending to power differences and keeping personal needs out of the participant’s or group’s process.
Pace, choice, communication and the possibility of overwhelm are considered throughout. The scope of each retreat, event, consultation or training is described without presenting personal development as specialist treatment.
Confidentiality expectations are established for professional teams and participants. Privacy also includes how registration information, personal disclosures, images and communications are handled.
Responsibility includes ongoing education, reflective practice and seeking consultation or supervision when the work calls for it. Difficult moments should be examined rather than explained away.
A practical event matter may begin with Andrew’s team. A formal grievance, a concern involving Andrew or a matter requiring greater independence can be taken to Safe Mediation.
Accountability in public
Andrew undertook a third-party accountability process with Safe Mediation in response to allegations of sexual misconduct. The process formally concluded in April 2023.
This information remains public because professional integrity is not about presenting a flawless image. It grows through honesty, accountability and a willingness to keep difficult history visible. An independent route also remains available to anyone who has concerns.
Detailed standards and procedures
The shorter principles above are here to help you find your way through the subject. The full documents contain the complete standards, scope and procedures.
The principles and required conduct applying to Andrew and the people formally working in event roles.
Read the CodeHow event-related complaints and formal allegations of ethical breaches are distinguished and addressed.
Read the ProcedureThe trauma-informed approach, realistic scope of support and limits of retreats and events.
Read the StatementThe scope of Tantric Body De-armouring Practitioner Training in relation to trauma and future professional practice.
Read the StatementThe public record of Andrew’s third-party accountability process with Safe Mediation, completed in April 2023.
Read the RecordHow personal information is collected, used, protected and shared, together with your data-protection rights.
Read the StatementWhen something does not feel right
You may ask a question, name a discomfort or raise a concern without first deciding whether it is a complaint, grievance or breach of the Code.
For an event, registration or practical concern, you can begin with a direct conversation and ask what process will follow.
Contact AndrewFor a formal grievance, a concern involving Andrew or a matter you do not want handled within his team, contact Safe Mediation directly.
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